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Post by Care Bear on Fri May 23, 2008 7:27 pm

...When you found out you were pregnant?

I'd have to say my in-laws were the hardest clown
That was like the most nerve wracking experience of my LIFE. They didn't particularly like me as it was. I had 'taken their baby boy away' and now I was the slut he married too young and now knocked up, lovely!


My best friend Kirsta was the easiest, mostly because she was there Laughing I would have told her ASAP anyway, and I knew she would understand. She had known about the suspicions already so just getting it confirmed wasn't too much of a big deal. My mom was also really easy to tell, well, she was safe to tell if that makes sense, I was still pretty nervous. She knew I was pregnant before it had seriously crossed my mind even so it was no big shock to her either. (Well of course it was a shock, but you now what I mean.)

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Post by xoxo. ashleyy on Fri May 23, 2008 8:51 pm

My mom was the easiet and the hardest.
She would understand, and I knew she would, but I was her baby girl.
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Post by ChalyssaMuch on Fri May 23, 2008 8:55 pm

the hardest people to tell??
my friends...well..seems more like ex friends..
most werent very supportive of it..
my parents were surprisingly decent about it.. my mom was disappointed but nice about it..and my dad called me a slut and what not..but thats nothing new he has some anger issues..and got over it and so did I.
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Post by Care Bear on Sat May 24, 2008 12:35 am

xoxo. ashleyy wrote:My mom was the easiet and the hardest.
She would understand, and I knew she would, but I was her baby girl.

That's pretty much how my mom was too. She was excited though, but I know she was having letting-go issues.

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Post by ChalyssaMuch on Sat May 24, 2008 12:42 am

yeah my mom too..she is sort of happy about it now though because she thinks shes getting old..and thinks of it more as a blessing that I got pregnant so early..because she might not be around later.
depressing!! she really is NOT that old..but she wont hear it. lol
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Post by xoxo. ashleyy on Sat May 24, 2008 8:22 pm

My stepdad was piiiiiiissed about me getting pregnant, but yet so happy about me keeping him... He was mostly mad about the fact he became a 31 year old grandpa!!!
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Post by ChalyssaMuch on Sat May 24, 2008 8:25 pm

see My parents are in their almost mid sixties..so they are kinda happy that i got pregnant now that they think ahead.
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Post by Care Bear on Sat May 24, 2008 9:11 pm

Because they want grandkids? Question

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Post by ChalyssaMuch on Sat May 24, 2008 9:14 pm

No because they wanna meet one of mine..they have plenty of them already.. but they are glad they will be around to see my child.
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Post by Care Bear on Sat May 24, 2008 9:33 pm

Oh I see Smile
That's always a nice thing.

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Post by ChalyssaMuch on Sat May 24, 2008 10:32 pm

Yeah they think everything happens for a reason just as much as I do.
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Post by Care Bear on Thu May 29, 2008 3:31 am

That's great! I love to hear it.

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Post by MommyJami2 on Sun Jul 06, 2008 6:51 pm

my inlaws my mother in law then started to say that arron my oldest wasn't hubbys he was someone eleses she made that pregnancy a night mare she was like well ill know if he's his when he's born and sure enough arron came out looking just like his daddy as for henry jr she didnt say a word about that pregnancy except she was happy cause she knew that he belonged to him and that i had never cheated on him seesh in laws
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Post by MommyJami2 on Sun Jul 06, 2008 6:52 pm

the easiest person to tell was my mom she was thrilled with joy Smile and ok how come my siggy isnt showing up?
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Post by Care Bear on Mon Jul 07, 2008 4:34 am

Ugh I'm so sorry my in laws are evil too Sad And moms are awesome Wink (Unless they aren't yours! haha)

I don't know why it didn't show up but I see it on other threads! =\

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Post by MommyJami2 on Mon Jul 07, 2008 11:39 am

its ok my mil (mother in law) has since came to her senses about arron since he's older i mean seesh he even has crooked pinky fingers just like henry and they were like that when he was born oh man plus what really got to be but i was on so many pain meds i could have cared less at the time after having him was she brought hubbys ex fiance down to the hosptial with her after they left i was like henry why was she here and he said mom said thats all she could find to ride with her since she dont like to go anywhere alone i was like yeah whatever then before i got preggers with arron she was trying to get him back with his ex and reading him letters she had wrote to him right in front of me i was so ticked but ha ha on her cause it didnt work it just made us stronger....my mom on the other had she was by my side through thick and then she's my best friend Smile sorry for such a long post maybe i just needed to vent a lil too Smile
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Post by Care Bear on Mon Jul 07, 2008 7:24 pm

lol omg it's okay vent away! In laws are HARD to deal with sometimes, for whatever reason but they are. I canNOT believe your MIL had the balls to do that! And especially right in front of you! It's one thing to be a sneaky rat behind your back but to be a flat out scumbag directly in front of you, oooh heads would be rolling if that had been me!

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Post by MommyJami2 on Tue Jul 08, 2008 7:15 am

i just sat there rolling my eyes and saying henry we have to go on the day that she started reading him that letter now if i could have gotten up out of my bed the day i had arron i would have but they had me laying down with these things on my legs to help them not get blood clots cause of the surgery plus i didnt want to be rude and have her throwed out...ok so i did but didnt do it cause it would have upset henry and he would have put the blame on me saying ok now look what you've done you've gone and hurt moms feelings yeah right anywho she has now since came around like i said and im trying to have a mil daughter in law relationship its just so hard to when her fav son and his wife and 2 kids are living with her and she sees their kids every day and only comes and sees mine on holidays or we have to make the 2 hour drive up there to see her that kinda peeves me off but we do it so the boys can see their grandma
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Post by Melinda_Jane on Wed Jul 09, 2008 12:27 am

my family and so were the easiest to tell.
the hardest was my friends, i just didnt think they understand
but it worked out well once everyone knew lol.

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Post by MommyJami2 on Wed Jul 09, 2008 6:04 am

thats great that everything worked out for you Smile
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Post by Care Bear on Wed Jul 30, 2008 6:22 am

I second that, it's great that everything is all well in the end Smile I think that's always how it works, once the real excitement of a new baby kicks in for everyone they don't care about anything else, it's great!

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