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Post by Care Bear on Thu May 29, 2008 12:59 am

My husband gives me a lot of crap, sometimes joking sometimes serious, about how *HE* makes the money at his *JOB* therefore everything is *HIS*? It drives me bonkers. It's a marriage, is it not? I mean, I will be staying home with our daughter but I don't claim that she's *MINE* Laughing

How do you other SAHMs deal with this when/if it happens?

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Post by ChalyssaMuch on Tue Jun 10, 2008 3:47 pm

Yeah James lives with me now and dont get me wrong he does nice things for me SOMETIMES but talks about how he makes the money now (even though its going to me cause he cant be trusted and he knows that) and usually jokes but theres a sense of sincerity expecting me to clean up after him and cook him dinner all the time..just cause i cooked him dinner ONCE and had to do all the cleaning for a week while my parents were gone.
...and as for staying home..i wish i could but im thinking i'll have to work too..
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Post by Care Bear on Tue Jun 24, 2008 4:42 am

OMG I know what you mean about doing something once and then them expecting it all the time.. It makes me afraid to just do something special for Mike once in a while because I don't want him to think it's all of a sudden my JOB to cater to him.

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Post by Melinda_Jane on Tue Jun 24, 2008 7:33 pm

my partner is like this.
we arent married yet and im at home atm coz i left my job due to really
bad morning sickness n he jokes around all the time, tht he brings the money home and pays the bills etc.
it really frustarates me hello im carrying ur child lol.
plus i do do all the cooking and cleaning so he shouldnt complain!
even if his joking it offends me.

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Post by Care Bear on Wed Jun 25, 2008 2:56 am

I hear ya! Joking around about something like that isn't fair, especially since you're already so emotional as it is that just makes it all worse Sad Guys just don't get it though, everything is "theirs".. ugh.. whatever!

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Post by ChalyssaMuch on Sun Jul 06, 2008 11:42 am

James did that alot but then he lost that job now he works full time at dominoes and if he even STARTS he will hear it from me.
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Post by Care Bear on Mon Jul 07, 2008 4:53 am

Good for you moma!

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Post by MommyJami2 on Mon Jul 07, 2008 5:39 pm

Care Bear wrote:My husband gives me a lot of crap, sometimes joking sometimes serious, about how *HE* makes the money at his *JOB* therefore everything is *HIS*? It drives me bonkers. It's a marriage, is it not? I mean, I will be staying home with our daughter but I don't claim that she's *MINE* Laughing

How do you other SAHMs deal with this when/if it happens?

yeah henry was the same way there for a while saying well i make the money i have a job at least i have a job ok then what do u call taking care of kids??? hummm?? im like its a job too i just dont get paid for it and thats fine with me if u can't handle that then buzz off.. now he' fine with it there for a while i did work part time as a cashier but i missed my babies so much i just couldnt handle it so he said dont worry its ok u can be a SAHM i know its hard and that is a job and your good at it better then i was so he works now and i take care of my babies just like i've wanted to in the begining Smile
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Post by Care Bear on Mon Jul 07, 2008 7:42 pm

Yeah they get breaks, we have to hold a pee until baby falls asleep! They get MONEY for their efforts, we get poopy diapers and spit up on! I'd say they can shove it! Laughing

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Post by MommyJami2 on Tue Jul 08, 2008 6:57 am

lol i hear ya
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