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Post by ChalyssaMuch on Fri May 23, 2008 11:23 pm

Had an abortion? if so what was your reasoning.
Im personally pro-life
but I wanna understand people's reasoning for aborting.
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Post by Care Bear on Sat May 24, 2008 12:47 am

No abortions here, not now not ever. I can sympathize with women who choose this as the best choice they can make, but there is ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS a better alternative. And I don't think that the psychological repercussion it can have on a woman are worth it, it's really impossible for most to 'come back' from.

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Post by ChalyssaMuch on Sat May 24, 2008 12:48 am

yeah i cant imagine myself ever having one..i would feel guilty for the rest of my life and constantly ponder all the what if's
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Post by xoxo. ashleyy on Sat May 24, 2008 8:19 pm

Nope, and never will.
I (honestly) hate people who get abortions, and am not afraid to say it.
My mom got raped when she was 19, became pregnant with twins because of the rape, and kept us Very Happy Because of that, I can understand NO ONE reasons
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Post by ChalyssaMuch on Sat May 24, 2008 8:23 pm

yeah I feel like everything happens for a reason bad or good..and in alot of bad things miracles can be made..that would be you and your twin of course. sorry to hear about your mom though thats horrible =[
but yeah i dont see any good reason to do it.
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Post by Care Bear on Sat May 24, 2008 9:23 pm

xoxo. ashleyy wrote:Nope, and never will.
I (honestly) hate people who get abortions, and am not afraid to say it.
My mom got raped when she was 19, became pregnant with twins because of the rape, and kept us Very Happy Because of that, I can understand NO ONE reasons

Exactly, there is always a better answer to handling the outcomes of misfortune. It doesn't give anyone the go-ahead to choose the life or death of another.

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Post by ChalyssaMuch on Sat May 24, 2008 9:25 pm

I wonder how people can just move on after an abortion without any regrets or anything..its crazy...you killed something that wanted to live..
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Post by Care Bear on Sat May 24, 2008 9:40 pm

They aren't in any position to think the baby "wanted" anything, because that just isn't how they feel. A serial killer can go to bed every night and have no troubles doing what they did, but it doesn't make it right.

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Post by ChalyssaMuch on Sat May 24, 2008 10:36 pm

Very true.. thats why i will never understand abortion and why anyone would find it alright..and then serial killers ugh they disgust me.
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Post by Care Bear on Thu May 29, 2008 3:14 am

Yeah seriously, that's a whoooole other debate though.

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Post by Melinda_Jane on Tue Jun 24, 2008 7:44 pm

ive neva had an abortion n never will ive always been against it
i think adoption is a better alternative.
i just think all babies should be born n be with their own mothers.
i dont judge others descsions about it but i think it should be illegal.

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Post by Care Bear on Wed Jun 25, 2008 3:11 am

Yeah, it's not a fair thing to make the life or death decision for another human being, doesn't matter the situation. Adoption is *always* the better alternative, I wish it was better considered more before abortion is decided upon.

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Post by MommyJami2 on Sun Jul 06, 2008 7:25 pm

no i have not ever Had an abortion and i never will i can't stand people who get them i think that if they are able to get pregnant then they should keep it it took me 6yrs to get preggo with arron and then there are these people out there that get preggo at the drop of a hat and then go do this makes me so mad i could eat nails(well not really) but it just pisses me off, a guy i know his soon to be ex wife was preggo with twins and she went and had one just to get back at him cause they were fighting i was so mad when he told me that i could have knocked her head off she was so blessed to have gotten preggo with them i mean the doctor says she would never have andy kids cause she has one ovary, she gets preggo by him twice thank god she keeps those kids and then they get into it and she does this its not right and something should be done to people that do that like put in jail for murder or something jmo
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Post by xoxo. ashleyy on Sun Jul 06, 2008 11:38 pm

I agree that abortions should be treated like murder cases!
I don't understand how people think it's NOT murder!!!!
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Post by Care Bear on Mon Jul 07, 2008 4:58 am

MommyJami2 wrote:no i have not ever Had an abortion and i never will i can't stand people who get them i think that if they are able to get pregnant then they should keep it it took me 6yrs to get preggo with arron and then there are these people out there that get preggo at the drop of a hat and then go do this makes me so mad i could eat nails(well not really) but it just pisses me off, a guy i know his soon to be ex wife was preggo with twins and she went and had one just to get back at him cause they were fighting i was so mad when he told me that i could have knocked her head off she was so blessed to have gotten preggo with them i mean the doctor says she would never have andy kids cause she has one ovary, she gets preggo by him twice thank god she keeps those kids and then they get into it and she does this its not right and something should be done to people that do that like put in jail for murder or something jmo


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And Ashley, it's not "murder" because fetuses aren't "alive." Rolling Eyes

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Post by MommyJami2 on Mon Jul 07, 2008 5:46 am

no im not joking i wish i was but im not just breaks my heart and makes me mad cause she did that grrr sorry this is a very touchy subject for me cause of all i went through to get preggo with my lil ones
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Post by Care Bear on Mon Jul 07, 2008 7:49 pm

I totally understand that, I didn't even respond to that part but trust me I am happy for you! And I wouldn't hold it against you one lick if you were to speak your mind, not at all. I have noticed myself thinking the same thing - that it's CRAP that women can get pregnant at the drop of a hat, abort it and not give a crap, and then there's women like you who have a deep want to have a baby and have to struggle to get that. *hugs*

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Post by MommyJami2 on Tue Jul 08, 2008 6:48 am

thanks and your right about how people struggle to get preggo and then the ones that do some do something like that, makes me think of my hubbys poor cousin she has had 7 miscarriages and they can't figure out why, she can get so far along and its like her body is wanting to abort the baby its not her fault or nothing she has done but she ends up loosing them:( last time she lost one i had found out i was preggers with henry jr and was so afraid to tell her i didnt want it to hurt her ya know, id never do that to anyone but we did end up telling her cause she was at my mil when we called and becky was like what is it i want to know, but i am happy to say that they have since adopted a beautiful baby girl and she is more happy then ever she makes such a great mom and im so happy for her
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Post by Melinda_Jane on Wed Jul 09, 2008 12:36 am

i kno i totally hate it when they justify it by saying a fetus is not alive when clearly they r!

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Post by Melinda_Jane on Wed Jul 09, 2008 12:39 am

thts y i dont judge young mommies either because im happy they didnt have an abortion!
i as told i would probs have troubles falling pregnant as i have a slight case of PCOS however i didnt have troubles so im very blessed but even
the thought i might not ever be mom broke my heart, i really feel for the women who r struggling with fertility issues!

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Post by MommyJami2 on Wed Jul 09, 2008 6:02 am

so do i,i had 2 miscarriags before i got preggers with arron i was told id never have kids and now im blessed wit two thats what makes me mad about woman that can get preggers an then abort
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Post by Chelsea_Corrado on Thu Jun 04, 2009 1:27 am

I could never have an abortion. It would break my heart. I was my very first m/c and the doctor in the emergency room said if the baby didn't fully pass I would have to come back and take some kind of pill to get the tissues out. Thank God everything was passed naturally.
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Post by Care Bear on Thu Jun 04, 2009 10:14 am

Aw I never knew you had a miscarriage, I'm sorry.. I'm glad everything went okay for it though.

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Post by Chelsea_Corrado on Fri Jun 05, 2009 12:46 am

I actually had 4 m/c. It's nuts.I was told I would NEVER be able to have a baby.But we tried, and 4 m/c later, we had Ameerah! She is our miracle baby!
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Post by Care Bear on Sat Jun 06, 2009 6:06 pm

Awww that's awesome!! Smile

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