How long did it take?
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How long did it take?
Before you were back to "normal" as far as your emotions go after having a baby? This includes sexual drive.. Might be TMI, but I thought I was back to normal because a couple weeks ago I was totally into the affection again and things were going GREAT but when I got my first PP period I just kinda reverted back to hating all this physical; sex, kisses, hugs, anything. It's been over now for about 4-5 days and I still feel this way. I'm just wondering, will I EVER be normal again or will I just go into heat once a month and the rest of the time not want any kind of contact at all? (lol...) My husband really gets down on himself and feels unloved because I can't seem to act like a wife anymore, sexual or non. This really can't be how it will be from now on Advice? Stories? Compassion?
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ive been wondeing the same thing like how long after bub arrives will our sex life go back to the 'norm' lol
coz seriously i really hate sex while im pregnant i just cant enoy it and i feel very uncomfy about it.
plus im really worried tht sex will hurt after birth...
its not too much info chickie, i hope u work something out thou,
im not very helpful but am def compassionate!!!
coz seriously i really hate sex while im pregnant i just cant enoy it and i feel very uncomfy about it.
plus im really worried tht sex will hurt after birth...
its not too much info chickie, i hope u work something out thou,
im not very helpful but am def compassionate!!!
Melinda_Jane-
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Location : Australia
Momma To : i am pregnant with my first baby!
Registration date : 2008-06-22
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Have you been feeling any better Melinda?? I just thought I'd update, I actually do! Sex is much more a regular thing these days, or at least not so dreaded. We're still adjusting, it's only been 3 months since she was born but day by day things get better and better!
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It took us honestly 5 months for me to get back on track. I have really horrible PPD and I'm on Zoloft for it, I admit, that the meds do help ALOT...but things could be better.
I could go months not having sex.We had sex a MAX of 4-6 times while I was pregnant.And even after I was ok'd by my OB/Gyn to have sex after the baby was born, I still didn't want it.Now, 5 months later I can stand to have sex every few days.
I felt SO SO SO bad for Waleed, he also felt sooo unloved and was sad.But things are getting better.
I could go months not having sex.We had sex a MAX of 4-6 times while I was pregnant.And even after I was ok'd by my OB/Gyn to have sex after the baby was born, I still didn't want it.Now, 5 months later I can stand to have sex every few days.
I felt SO SO SO bad for Waleed, he also felt sooo unloved and was sad.But things are getting better.
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I don't feel bad when guys feel unloved because they just aren't getting any.. I feel like I convey my feelings well enough in other ways and they need to see that, kwim?? (Know what I mean, just in case you don't know what that stands for.)
I still don't care for sex, really.
I still don't care for sex, really.
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I understand what you mean,totally. But Waleed and I had sex like rabbits before the baby came lol.And then all of the sudden it was like when I got pregnant, WHAM, no sex drive.
I like sex alot better than before.But I feel fat
I like sex alot better than before.But I feel fat
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You're speaking my language. I hate looking at older pics of myself it drives me nuts. I do all that I can too which breaks my fat little heart
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